Family's nickname: Sandy
Friend's nickname: Zen
Username: Sandstone
His family thinks he's impressionable. He's willing to change his mind if the argument is worthy. He's a gentle speaker.
His friends think he's the 'rock', confident and reliable -- a calming presence.
Now that he's lost his job as a radio programmer, the public thinks he's fractured and crumbling, but he knows he's all right. He's planting potatoes and beans. His self-esteem is intact.